“And yet no matter what issue brings a couple into therapy – feeling under-appreciated, going in different directions, clashing parenting styles – we always end up talking about sex.” Libido highs and lows “As a community in Ireland, sex gets left out of the conversation,” says Sarah Gilligan, a psychotherapist with a specialist interest in relationships, sex and sexuality. Clearly this is the first time I have written about the subject and yet it’s something that affects every single one of us – male or female, young or old, pandemic or no pandemic.
It has taken me three goes to even spell the word correctly. Lizzie Gore-Grimes has a number of very frank conversations with other women to talk about our current pandemic passion – or lack of. Whether you’re in the lockdown love-in or Covid cold war camp, chances are this pandemic is having an affect on your relationship.